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		<title>bittersweet&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 07:30:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[about an ice-age ago in terms of internet time, there was a site called bittersweet which invited submissions &#8211; usually short fictional autobiography or autobiographical fiction. these were a few of my submissions about, i guess, what you could call *submissions*. they&#8217;ve been lying forgotten in the fossilized strata of my computer till i stumbled upon [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cybersass.com&#038;blog=3706626&#038;post=1431&#038;subd=cybersass&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 09:11:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i can be like a cornered animal when hurt. vicious. i can be the uncontrollable bitch snarling at the end of a leash. and i&#8217;m sorry for that. i&#8217;ve had my teeth unsheathed, angry and scared,  but i&#8217;m going to be quiet now. i&#8217;m back to who i really am &#8211; the better version of me. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cybersass.com&#038;blog=3706626&#038;post=708&#038;subd=cybersass&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>time for nothing</title>
		<link>http://cybersass.com/2008/11/19/time-for-nothing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 09:31:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[time strange how time can flex contracting and expanding at will sometimes it&#8217;s candy gobbled with a fat-faced greed disappearing with a speed that makes one spin other times the day stretches into infinity like treacle elastic and sticky and the clock stays stuck for hours at the same face you perused merely but a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cybersass.com&#038;blog=3706626&#038;post=693&#038;subd=cybersass&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>hell hath no fury&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://cybersass.com/2008/11/17/hell-hath-no-fury/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 09:11:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[there will be no post today because much as i need to be a bitch at the moment, i&#8217;d prefer not to be one in public. though i cannot guarantee anything. Posted in life Tagged: break ups, hell hath no fury, relationships<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cybersass.com&#038;blog=3706626&#038;post=680&#038;subd=cybersass&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>irretrievable</title>
		<link>http://cybersass.com/2008/11/16/irretrievable/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 10:18:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i think i am still in a state of disbelief. still finding it hard to fathom that this time is not another false ending. that there will not be another do-over. a take 4, or 5. there will be no rewrites on this particular script. i keep seeing this very graphic image. you know the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cybersass.com&#038;blog=3706626&#038;post=668&#038;subd=cybersass&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>elvis has left the building</title>
		<link>http://cybersass.com/2008/11/14/elvis-has-left-the-building/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 17:42:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[seeing that the theme for this week is breaking up, i thought this short short-story i wrote a long time ago, might make an appropriate post.   Freshman year. I saw him coming down the stairs of the lecture hall, his long hair wildly curling, his arms flailing in conversation. I shook my head and turned [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cybersass.com&#038;blog=3706626&#038;post=287&#038;subd=cybersass&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>bound</title>
		<link>http://cybersass.com/2008/11/12/bound/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 09:11:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[    i&#8217;m so full of shite. so full of contradictions and ambivalences and ambiguities and inconsistencies. i wrote that  earlier post about being on the bound. that i&#8217;m going to bounce.  and after i posted it, i realized that i was still waiting for my phone to ring, waiting for some connection, my whole being tuned [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cybersass.com&#038;blog=3706626&#038;post=661&#038;subd=cybersass&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>the post mortem phase</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2008 11:54:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[so 5 days on, the ex and i are in the post-mortem phase. he comes over and we make morning coffee and stand in the kitchen holding each other and crying. and we talk about what went wrong and how we still love each other, but that we realize that we were flogging the proverbial [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cybersass.com&#038;blog=3706626&#038;post=659&#038;subd=cybersass&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>the morning after&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://cybersass.com/2008/11/09/the-morning-after/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 10:38:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[it&#8217;s the morning after the night before. my first of many nights alone in the house, knowing that this time he&#8217;s not coming back. the first day of the rest of my life. and i&#8217;m so sad. i was wise enough yesterday to call my good friend deon for some support. we went to another [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cybersass.com&#038;blog=3706626&#038;post=652&#038;subd=cybersass&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>breaking up is hard to do</title>
		<link>http://cybersass.com/2008/11/08/breaking-up-is-hard-to-do/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Nov 2008 08:52:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[    the milk&#8217;s been spilt, the horse been flogged, the ship has sunk.  got home from work yesterday at the end of a week that was and my partner of 4 years, the one who gave up his life in l.a. and followed me 10 000 miles,  sat me down to tell me he [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=cybersass.com&#038;blog=3706626&#038;post=647&#038;subd=cybersass&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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